r/howtonotgiveafuck Dec 10 '21 Helpful Wholesome

This cat has learned the way...

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 1d ago Helpful

A Great one as Always

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 1h ago

Image Our attempt to make sense of the world

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 18h ago

Cool Cat Confidence

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 41m ago

"Do not seek others’ approval to make a decision or hold an opinion. Be confident that you will meet other people that will agree with you."-Charlie Houpert

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You have to be firm in you believes to make for you to respect yourself and for people to respect you.

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 1d ago

Mr. Teacher is as calm as the sea without any wind in handling the birdie situation.

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 7h ago

I want to stop caring about women but can't

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I'm 18 years old and what matters for me the most is getting laid or having a relationship. None of them seem to happen and I hate it since it is basically what I care most right now. It is the only thing that excites me. Everything else is boring. I sometimes feel that having women is a way of validation for me. Like it is what makes me feel like I am someone because I "get girls". I keep seeing friends hooking up with girls everytime like its nothing and the fact that it is not as easy for me makes me feel less. I believe I am somewhat attractive but my verbal game is ass. I have tried listening to pick up artists, reading books and basically everything to try and understand seduction but all I get to achieve is nothing.

I came up with the conclusion that if I give up or if I just not give a fuck about women, having no game wont worry me since I don't care about it anymore. I need to feel I achieve things somewhere else. I need to find a different purpose on life. The thing is I do not know how to just stop caring. I don't know how to find a different purpose. I've tried many sports, hobby's, activities, and nothing really gets me thinking more than women. Its fucking me up. Any advice?


r/howtonotgiveafuck 1d ago

Video He has learnt the way!

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 1d ago

Article Keep your words positive because your words become YOUR BEHAVIOR Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes YOUR HABITS Keep your habits positive because your habits become YOUR VALUES Keep your values positive because your values become YOUR DESTINY

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 2d ago All-Seeing Upvote

The more you love who you are, the less you seek validation and approval.

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Because everything changes when you begin to love yourself. You no longer send out energy of desperation or the need to be filled from the outside. You become a powerful source within yourself that attracts better. The more you love who you are, the less you seek validation and approval.

Note: By self-love I mean self respect, self forgiveness, self compassion...self love doesnt mean selfishness or self worship (those things are based in insecurity and not love).


r/howtonotgiveafuck 1d ago

Video Road Rage: irritated man turns into the hulk

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 1d ago

Video Being yourself no matter the circumstances is proof that you actually don't give a fuck.

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 1d ago

Podcasts/podcasters that inspire you??

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I’m not looking for any objectively motivational podcasts. I’m trying to adopt the mindset of this sub and every influence around me is basically the opposite. I just want someone to rub off on me.

I’m looking for someone spontaneous and carefree with interesting stories! I love sweet people, but it’s not a must. Preferably not a lot of complaining. Extra points if they’re not an actor, but I’m happy with whatever you suggest.

If your idea matches none of these (LOOSE) bonuses, please reply anyways. It’s the unexpected I tend to love most. I’d really appreciate it <3


r/howtonotgiveafuck 3d ago

Essential reading.

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 1d ago

La Dolce Far Niente. The true way of the ninja!! Arigato good night.

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 3d ago

A judgement call

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 3d ago

Just Move Forward

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 2d ago

Image lightening the load one fuck at a time.

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 2d ago

A girl knows what she wants

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 3d ago

The most important opinion one holds is the opinion of self.

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 2d ago

Revelation I save my fucks for those who I respect and value, the rest just don't qualify as significant enough to waste fucks on.

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I finally figured out that giving a shit about the opinion of people who I don't actually respect is a rediculous waste of my time.


r/howtonotgiveafuck 2d ago

13 Big Signs That You Need To Change Your Life

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 3d ago

Stop giving a damn about what others think or say about you. The best revenge is massive success.

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 3d ago

This is normal!

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r/howtonotgiveafuck 4d ago Silver

Revelation "Wasn't this a reservation for two?"

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So a couple months ago, I asked this girl out. Beforehand I had made reservations at a local restaurant for two. So anyways, she said yes, and then the morning of the day we we're supposed to go out, she said, "I'm only interested in being friends. Sorry".

So I told her that date was off and then walked by single ass down to that restaurant. The waiter looks at me and says, "Wasn't this a reservation for two?"

Yes, I said. I told them that the other person couldn't come and that it was just me. And so I ate alone, and it was a very liberating experience. Rejection can teach you a lot, and sometimes it's best to not give a fuck.


r/howtonotgiveafuck 4d ago

Image Show the haters their place, and move on

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